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November 4, 2008

So much for that…

Say goodbye to the Callie/Erica storyline on Grey’s Anatomy, because after this week, it’s gone.  That’s right: gone. 

The End of Callie and Erica

Brook Smith, the actress who plays Erica Hahn, has been fired from the show, and THIS THURSDAY NIGHT will be her final episode.  (Full story HERE.) According to Smith, she’s not even properly written out of the show:

“My final scene is just me heading to my car. I honestly don’t know what happens in the next episode.”

Apparently, things were getting a little too gay for ABC.  Smith being fired isn’t the only change – AfterEllen reports that ABC is also going to de-gay a new character named Sadie who was originally slated to be a bisexual intern with some sort of history with Meredith.

This doesn’t even make any sense!  This is ABC we’re talking about, home of Ugly Betty – aka Possibly The Gayest Show in History!  I guess gay characters are okay until they start having like, real emotions and relationships, like, you know, human beings?

I’m so disappointed.  I was really looking forward to watching the Callie and Erica romance unfold – not to mention the fact that lesbian or no, Erica Hahn was a such a great, strong female character.

Feel free to contact ABC and tell them what you think of this.

November 2, 2008

Like needing glasses

It’s not very often that while watching television, I think, ”Wow, what a great representation of being a lesbian!”  But this Thursday, watching Grey’s Anatomy, I thought just that:

A heartbreaking scene, no doubt, but I was so moved and impressed by the great writing and acting.  It is so rare to see, especially on network television, a gay character speak so clearly about how it feels to discover one’s sexuality.  This was such an honest and true depiction of a coming out process that many real life lesbians have experienced - and it was on mainstream television, for all to see.

You can go to abc.com to watch the whole episode.

October 14, 2008

Are you kidding?

The media has been all over Eva Longoria for awhile now.  Everyone was saying she was pregnant, but she repeatedly denied the rumors.  So now the story has become: Eva Longoria – Fat! 

I took the bait and clicked when I saw the headline above, wondering if Longporia would go so far as to share her actual weight – up to a whopping 110 pounds perhaps??? – and found this quote from her:

“I stopped working out and gained about seven pounds over the summer, which is a lot for a small person. Every magazine is tearing me apart … I never went up a size. I just got rounder. I’m still a size 0.”

As a fellow petite lady, I will back her up on the assertion that seven pounds is a lot for a smaller gal – which is why it is pretty much impossible that she did not go up a size if she gained that much.  And notice how she points this out almost as if it’s the reason that the magazines should cut her some slack – meaning that if she had ballooned to an unimaginable size 2 or, heaven forbid, a size 4, they’d have every right to call her a fat slob?? But I digress. 

The interview also includes some pictures of her new, curvier bod:

Wow.  If this is what a ”round” figure looks like…

September 22, 2008

Update: Women’s Health Rights at Risk

Remember when I told you about the Bush administration, through the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, attempting to rewrite the rules on women’s healthcare, making it possible for any woman to be denied contraceptives at the whim of her healthcare provider? And in that post I included a link to a petition to sign opposing this change?

Well now I have something else for you – a link to send your thoughts straight to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services on this issue. NARAL has a quick online form you can fill out to tell the HHS directly that this change of the rules is unacceptable.

As a reminder, the proposed change would give all healthcare providers who works in facilities that receive federal funds the right to deny any woman access to not only an abortion (healthcare providers already have that right), but to the birth control pill and Plan B (the morning after pill), if they happen to personally believe that life begins at conception and therefore birth control is abortion.

This proposed change would put healthcare providers individual ideologies above patient rights and limit women’s choices when it comes to our own healthcare.

Please take a moment to CLICK and tell the HHS that this regulation undermines women’s rights and needs to be stopped.

September 19, 2008

Feminist Housewife: Negligent Blogger, Champion Homemaker

Well, I’ve been a negligent blogger.  Things have been a little crazy recently with The Accountant starting a new job about a month ago (no need for a change of moniker – it’s still accounting), and me following suit soon thereafter.  I have left the corporate desk job behind, and am now a daytime nanny, which is like being a stay at home mom - just without the sleep deprivation (i.e. much easier).  It’s been a nice change and it feels oh so good to be freed of the cubicle!  One of the perks of this new gig is that I get home earlier during the week, meaning more time for homemaking.

And speaking of homemaking, we are on a roll!  Next weekend we will be visited by some family from out of town (our first overnight guests in the new place!), and so we are in total go-mode, knocking out tasks left and right.  This weekend is the real crunch time, and I hope to be back soon with some pictures of our handiwork!

In the meantime, I would like to leave you with this piece by Gloria Steinem about Sarah Palin.  I am a great admirer of Gloria Steinem’s.  Her voice really needs to be heard right now, when we as women have so much to lose in this election, and the GOP and media are treating us like bargaining chips, idiots, or both.

Palin: Wrong woman, wrong message
By Gloria Steinem

Here’s the good news: Women have become so politically powerful that even the anti-feminist right wing — the folks with a headlock on the Republican Party — are trying to appease the gender gap with a first-ever female vice president. We owe this to women — and to many men too — who have picketed, gone on hunger strikes or confronted violence at the polls so women can vote. We owe it to Shirley Chisholm, who first took the “white-male-only” sign off the White House, and to Hillary Rodham Clinton, who hung in there through ridicule and misogyny to win 18 million votes.

But here is even better news: It won’t work. This isn’t the first time a boss has picked an unqualified woman just because she agrees with him and opposes everything most other women want and need. Feminism has never been about getting a job for one woman. It’s about making life more fair for women everywhere. It’s not about a piece of the existing pie; there are too many of us for that. It’s about baking a new pie.

Selecting Sarah Palin, who was touted all summer by Rush Limbaugh, is no way to attract most women, including die-hard Clinton supporters. Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Clinton. Her down-home, divisive and deceptive speech did nothing to cosmeticize a Republican convention that has more than twice as many male delegates as female, a presidential candidate who is owned and operated by the right wing and a platform that opposes pretty much everything Clinton’s candidacy stood for — and that Barack Obama’s still does. To vote in protest for McCain/Palin would be like saying, “Somebody stole my shoes, so I’ll amputate my legs.”

This is not to beat up on Palin. I defend her right to be wrong, even on issues that matter most to me. I regret that people say she can’t do the job because she has children in need of care, especially if they wouldn’t say the same about a father. I get no pleasure from imagining her in the spotlight on national and foreign policy issues about which she has zero background, with one month to learn to compete with Sen. Joe Biden’s 37 years’ experience.

Palin has been honest about what she doesn’t know. When asked last month about the vice presidency, she said, “I still can’t answer that question until someone answers for me: What is it exactly that the VP does every day?” When asked about Iraq, she said, “I haven’t really focused much on the war in Iraq.”

She was elected governor largely because the incumbent was unpopular, and she’s won over Alaskans mostly by using unprecedented oil wealth to give a $1,200 rebate to every resident. Now she is being praised by McCain’s campaign as a tax cutter, despite the fact that Alaska has no state income or sales tax. Perhaps McCain has opposed affirmative action for so long that he doesn’t know it’s about inviting more people to meet standards, not lowering them. Or perhaps McCain is following the Bush administration habit, as in the Justice Department, of putting a job candidate’s views on “God, guns and gays” ahead of competence. The difference is that McCain is filling a job one 72-year-old heartbeat away from the presidency.

So let’s be clear: The culprit is John McCain. He may have chosen Palin out of change-envy, or a belief that women can’t tell the difference between form and content, but the main motive was to please right-wing ideologues; the same ones who nixed anyone who is now or ever has been a supporter of reproductive freedom. If that were not the case, McCain could have chosen a woman who knows what a vice president does and who has thought about Iraq; someone like Texas Sen. Kay Bailey Hutchison or Sen. Olympia Snowe of Maine. McCain could have taken a baby step away from right-wing patriarchs who determine his actions, right down to opposing the Violence Against Women Act.

Palin’s value to those patriarchs is clear: She opposes just about every issue that women support by a majority or plurality.She believes that creationism should be taught in public schools but disbelieves global warming; she opposes gun control but supports government control of women’s wombs; she opposes stem cell research but approves “abstinence-only” programs, which increase unwanted births, sexually transmitted diseases and abortions; she tried to use taxpayers’ millions for a state program to shoot wolves from the air but didn’t spend enough money to fix a state school system with the lowest high-school graduation rate in the nation; she runs with a candidate who opposes the Fair Pay Act but supports $500 million in subsidies for a natural gas pipeline across Alaska; she supports drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Reserve, though even McCain has opted for the lesser evil of offshore drilling. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.

I don’t doubt her sincerity. As a lifetime member of the National Rifle Assn., she doesn’t just support killing animals from helicopters, she does it herself. She doesn’t just talk about increasing the use of fossil fuels but puts a coal-burning power plant in her own small town. She doesn’t just echo McCain’s pledge to criminalize abortion by overturning Roe vs. Wade, she says that if one of her daughters were impregnated by rape or incest, she should bear the child. She not only opposes reproductive freedom as a human right but implies that it dictates abortion, without saying that it also protects the right to have a child.

So far, the major new McCain supporter that Palin has attracted is James Dobson of Focus on the Family. Of course, for Dobson, “women are merely waiting for their husbands to assume leadership,” so he may be voting for Palin’s husband.

Being a hope-a-holic, however, I can see two long-term bipartisan gains from this contest.

Republicans may learn they can’t appeal to right-wing patriarchs and most women at the same time. A loss in November could cause the centrist majority of Republicans to take back their party, which was the first to support the Equal Rights Amendment and should be the last to want to invite government into the wombs of women.

And American women, who suffer more because of having two full-time jobs than from any other single injustice, finally have support on a national stage from male leaders who know that women can’t be equal outside the home until men are equal in it. Barack Obama and Joe Biden are campaigning on their belief that men should be, can be and want to be at home for their children.

This could be huge.

Gloria Steinem is an author, feminist organizer and co-founder of the Women’s Media Center. She supported Hillary Clinton and is now supporting Barack Obama.

August 30, 2008

No he did not.

John McCain has chosen Sarah Palin as his VP. Let’s get right to it…

McCain and Palin have met approximately one time. The McCain camp has criticized Obama for being young and inexperienced – but Palin is a 44 year old, second year Governor of a state that ranks 47th in terms of population (only Wyoming, Vermont and North Dakota have less residents). Palin’s views on foreign policy are unknown.

Hear what my fantasy girlfriend Rachel Maddow has to say about Sarah Palin here:

That Rachel is always so cheery – “A laugh out loud choice” – for me, it was more of a rant and yell choice.  McCain’s pick is truly insulting to female voters everywhere.  This pick reeks of the same old Bush administration tactics of completely discounting the intelligence of the American people.  Does the McCain camp really think that we don’t see this choice for what it is?  Do they really think voters will believe that McCain thinks Sarah Palin is the next best choice for President after him?

It is 100% clear that McCain made this choice to woo disgruntled Hillary Clinton supporters to his side.  Check out Palin, a self-described “Pro-Life Feminist,” playing up the female empowerment angle in her acceptance speech today:

Interesting how Palin now thinks Hillary Clinton had “determination and grace,” when she used to think Clinton was a whiner (which of course fits right in at the McCain camp, where they think the American people on the whole are a bunch of whiners).

As a feminist, it is very disturbing for me to hear Palin speak as she did in her acceptance speech – yes, it is a great thing to have a woman as a Vice Presidential candidate, but she is running on the ticket of a man who, in 2008, does not support equal pay for equal work, and also does not support insurance companies covering birth control for women. I’m not sure how women can manage to break any glass ceilings when we are still not being paid as much as our male counterparts. I’m not sure how women can break any glass ceilings if we are denied choices regarding our own reproductive health.

And don’t be fooled by Palin’s seemingly feminist message – this woman is NOT a progressive.  She supports teaching creationism in schools, discounts global warming, is a hunter and life-long NRA member, is against putting polar bears on the endangered species list, opposes stem cell research, supports drilling for oil in Alaska (even McCain doesn’t support that!), does not support LGBT rights, and is 100% anti-abortion rights.

Sarah Palin is like the poster woman for the right wing, and is sure to please the religious base of the Republican party (seemingly the only other reason for McCain to have chosen her).

In closing, I would like to share with you a passage from Dorothy Snarker, a Hillary Clinton supporter, who expressed her feelings on the Sarah Palin selection very eloquently in her blog:

Women are not interchangeable. We aren’t paper dolls with removable heads and pantsuits. We’re individuals. We have brains. We even like to use them. Yet with his selection of Sarah Palin as his vice presidential pick, John McCain has shown us how he really feels about women. We’re dumb and fickle and will vote for anything in a dress. Am I glad that another woman has a shot at the second-highest seat in all the land? Of course – more opportunities for women to enter the upper echelons of power are always welcome. But does it also make me angry? Of course – this isn’t a sign of McCain’s newfound belief in the intrinsic equality of women. This is a joke.

It’s insulting, condescending, infuriating that McCain would think we women vote as a monolithic block controlled solely by our ladyparts. We do not, sir. Nor are we amused by the sexism that will no doubt be leveled Palin’s way (and already has been…um, VPILF.com, classy). I disagree with Palin based on her record. Pro-life. Pro-drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge. Pro-teaching of creationism. Pro-National Rifle Association. With only 20 months as governor and the mayorship of a town of less than 9,000 people on her resume, why was she selected when other much more experienced Republican women were passed over? This is not what feminism is about.

You can read Ms. Snarker’s excellent post in its entirety HERE.

August 26, 2008

Clinton supporters love McCain… When they don’t know who the #*&% he is.

You may have heard about this ad released by the McCain camp, in which a former Hillary Clinton supporter, Debra Barstovich, says that she is now supporting McCain.

Now, we already know how I feel about former Hillary supporters turning their allegiance to McCain, but there has been an interesting turn of events in this story…

The Republican party put together a little press conference yesterday with Barstovich, in which she was asked how she felt about McCain’s anti-abortion rights stance. Barstovich replied that McCain opposes overturning Roe v. Wade!  I’m not kidding!  Read the quote HERE!

Of course, we know quite well how John McCain feels about the right to choose – he has even said explicitly that he thinks Roe v. Wade should be overturned. It doesn’t get much plainer than that.

You’ll note that the McCain quote Barstovich referenced was from 1999; since then, McCain has changed his position on a myriad of issues, not the least of which being abortion rights.  So it seems that these looney-tunes turning from Clinton to McCain may not just be crazy, but grossly under-informed as well.

I like how my fantasy-girlfriend Rachel Maddow summed up this situation last night on MSNBC: It’s post-rational. That is the perfect way to describe this mess. It is completely post-rational that Clinton supporters would give their votes to a man who stands on the opposite end of nearly every single issue that Hillary Clinton ran on. There is no logic in what they are doing. It is completely post-rational, and yet it continues!

Here’s hoping that between now and November, these voters will, I don’t know…watch the news? Read a paper? Subscribe to Time magazine? GET A FREAKING CLUE?

My goodness, politics are exhausting.

July 23, 2008

Bush Plan: Destroy Women’s Rights by 1.29.09

With all the attention on the upcoming election, our still current President can slip under the radar from time to time.  But rest assured, his administration will not let its final months of power go to waste.  Oh no. 

The Bush administration, in the form of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, may now rewrite the rules of women’s healthcare by loosening the definition of “abortion” so that it may be twisted to include the birth control pill, the morning after pill, and various other forms of contraceptives.  Under this definition loosening, the HHS is going even a step further by proposing a little policy change that would require any hospital or health care provider which receives federal funding (in any way, shape or form) to sign “written certifications” that they will not refuse to hire any nurses, doctors or other providers who object to abortion, which now, under its shiny new definition, will include birth control.  These employees who object to “abortion” are then free to refuse to provide contraceptives to the patients who seek them.

How is this happening?  The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is buying into the unsound beliefs of the religious right.  This terrific blog on Huffington Post outlines the basis of the belief that contraceptives are a form of abortion.  Anti-choice and anti-contraceptive religious fanatics insist that “life” begins at conception, when the American Medical Association and the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists say it begins at implantation in the uterus.  There is no sound science that backs up the belief of these religious people, and yet the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is choosing to give this belief credence.

[The HHS] now claims that pregnancy begins at some biologically unknowable moment (there’s no test to determine if a woman’s egg has been fertilized). Under these new standards there would be no way for a woman to prove she’s not pregnant. Thus, any woman could be denied contraception under HHS’ new science.

You read it right: Any woman could be denied contraception. Including a married woman who has 4 children and simply cannot afford to feed another. Including a young woman who is not ready to be a parent.  Including me, a woman who is on the birth control pill not even for contraceptive purposes, but to ease severe pain associated with PMS.  Including a woman who is raped and goes to the emergency room in search of Plan B (the morning after pill).

And based on what? Speculation.  If a nurse or doctor thinks that life begins at conception and thinks that the birth control pill is therefore abortion, the patient is denied the care she seeks.  Lack of medical evidence doesn’t matter here.

This is unacceptable.

This change in policy would put the rights of the healthcare provider above the rights of the patient. This says that the belief of the ER nurse that Plan B is abortion and abortion is wrong is more important than the comfort and well-being of the rape victim who is horrified that she may have been impregnated by her attacker.

What ever happened to patients’ rights?  As patients, as women, as citizens, do our rights not matter at all?

You can read more about this here and here. Also check out this piece by Hillary Clinton about this incredibly important issue, and please follow the link to sign her petition to thwart this radical and dangerous change in policy.

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July 11, 2008

A Chilling Reminder

From Adweek via Gawker, I bring you this Egyptian ad promoting the wear of hijab, with translation below:

“You won’t be able to stop them, but you can protect yourself.
He who created you knows what’s best for you!”

So if you don’t cover up, you will be attacked, and it will be your fault because you could have just worn your hijab.  You “won’t be able to stop them,” and you will deserve it.

 

Sometimes it feels like we have come so far as women, and then I see something like this and reminds me how far there is yet to go.

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July 11, 2008

McCain: Oh, it gets worse…

We already know that McCain’s record on reproductive rights is atrocious, but this little gem just seems to be the icing on the cake:

You can head over to Huffington Post for a full description of the exchange.

McCain cannot even answer a simple question about whether insurance companies should cover the birth control pill. He can’t even remember the times he voted against such coverage.

First of all, I don’t buy it. Reproductive rights are a pretty hot button issue for right-wingers, making it incredibly hard to believe that McCain doesn’t remember where he stands or how he voted.

Secondly, he tells the reporter, “I’ll try to get back to you.” Sure, he’ll get back to you, after he talks to his team and finds out what his position should be because he clearly has no convictions of his own.

This is not the first time that McCain has had such a bizarre and troubling response to questions dealing with sexual health. Over a year ago, he stumbled similarly over a question about government funding for contraceptives and sex education in Africa to help in the fight against HIV/AIDS. He said, “I think I support the president’s present policy,” (referring to W’s abstinence only policy) he thinks.

When pressed further and asked if condoms prevent the spread of STD’s, McCain had this pearl of wisdom to share: “I’ve never gotten into these issues or thought much about them.”

Ah yes, how wonderful! I want a president who hasn’t really thought much about sex education or reproductive and sexual health. That is really the person who I want making decisions about these issues for the rest of us!

And wait, there’s more! McCain’s birth control befuddlement was not his only problem this week – check out this blog from Huffington Post (Arianna, I heart you!) outlining 10 – that’s right, TEN – serious McCain gaffes that happened just this week.

What’s truly amazing to me is how little attention all of these missteps are getting in the mainstream media. Where is the outrage? Why is Barack Obama’s every move dissected and debated on CNN and MSNBC on the regular, while outrageous flip flops and ignorant comments from McCain go almost completely unnoticed?

This morning I emailed the Huffington Post blog to some of my friends and family. I just couldn’t sit on the information knowing that it might end with me – I had to pass it along, and I hope you will do the same.

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